There are several three word sentences which can change your life. “I love you” changes it for the better. “You have cancer” changes it for the worse. Hearing those three words cause the world to spiral out of control around you; nothing feels like it will be okay again. It doesn’t matter if it is surface cells or stage 4, hearing those three words changes everything. Of course, hearing “I have cancer” from a friend or loved one, is equally as hard.
I have now been on both ends of the spectrum, which is why the Canadian Cancer Society’s Relay for Life is so important to me. As you know, on my 21st birthday, I had a biopsy done of my cervix. The cells were cancerous, but my doctor was able to remove all the cancerous cells that day. I was a lucky one, but I was still totally affected by the words. Every time one of the symptoms comes back, I struggle to fight the tears. It is still very real to me, even if it was only surface cells.
A month ago, someone very dear to me was diagnosed with Stage 4 Colon Cancer. She starts chemo next week; the doctors have tentatively given her 2-10 years. She will be getting chemo more often than normal because they want to fight it aggressively. Suddenly, two years isn’t long at all. At least the next six months will be chemotherapy for her. This lady is incredible. Her spirit it high; she is ready to fight the disease. She has the support of family, friends and her entire community behind her. I know it will be hard for me to watch her on chemo knowing how poorly I responded to my own problem, but I know that her spirit will remain strong. This is not about me, but about her.
Have you ever listened to a survivor? Cancer survivors are the most incredible, inspirational people I have ever met. People who have looked death in the eye and survived have more spirit than anyone can imagine. These people know the value of life and live it to the fullest.
The Canadian Cancer Society’s Relay for Life is fast approaching. This year, I do not run in self-pity for myself. This year, I run as a survivor, and I run for my friend. I know my friend is more of a survivor than I am already, but I run for both of us.
The Relay for Life is a 24 hour relay taking place at Massich Stadium in Prince George on May 8 and 9th, 2010. It is a time to support those currently fighting the disease, to remember those we have lost to it, and to fight for no one else to hear those life changing words. Until March 26th, registration costs $15. After that, registration is $20. That is really not much for the day of fun you will have. Each participant receives a t-shirt. The day has live entertainment, games, food by donation and is a great atmosphere. Come out and be inspired by a Survivor.
I encourage you to support cancer patients in any way you can. Financial donations go to research and patient care. Coming out to the event shows support for everyone who has heard those three words in their lifetime. For those of you not in Prince George, find an event near you to support.
This year, I run for Marlene. Who are you fighting for?
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